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Thursday, December 13, 2007

[Shadeshi_Bondhu] Have respect for your enemy, in addition to hating them

Have respect for your enemy, in addition to hating them

This is an unusual message to share on the Martyred Intellectual Day, but the reality is such that this message seems relevant.

This message is targeted towards the younger generation of Bangladesh, who did not have the opportunity to play a direct role in the Liberation War of Bangladesh. In a way, that miss of opportunity is unfortunate. But more importantly, this generation is fortunate in that many of our older generation have sacrificed their life to make sure that we can be proud of a country where we are born.

The younger generation, who did not have a direct role in 1971 Liberation War, is however responsible to build a country for which 'their next generation' will be proud of. More directly, I want my children, if I am ever gifted with them by the Almighty, to be proud of the country that their parents were born to, there parents' parents were born and they themselves were born.

So, if we, the younger generation accept that challenge, where should we start?

Before going there, let us see what our elder ones (what of them are still living and still can claim to be good representatives of human species) want us to do. I know what you are thinking. If you are like most of us, you are probably angry with them. But still, they are the reason that we are here in this world. So, there is a biological supremacy that they have upon us, if nothing else.

So, what they want us to do?

Alas! There is not a single voice. They are still divided. And the most important thing is that the group who seems to be on the right side of the cause also seems to be the stupid ones compared to those who are on the wrong side of the cause. So, whenever, we try to listen to them, you will hear either garbage or faulty evil sermon.

On the aggregate level, the voice of sane is absent. This is unfortunate, for sure. But it has to be recognized by the young that it is better than nothing. We still have a country to build, remember that.

Here is an example. If you listen to the people who seem to be on the right side of the cause, you will hear that their basis of logic is based on a single most important tone - that is 'hate' the other group. How come 'hate' be the corner-stone of nation building? On the other hand, the ones who have a presumably logical sounding voice (the word 'cunning' can best describe their trait), they seems to be on the wrong side of street. At least, historical truth dictates that.

So, what do we do?

Be on the right side. If you happen to have grown up on the wrong side, disassociate from the wrongs. There is still time. If you happen to be the ones who were sired by Go.A. or Nizami or Mujahid or the likes, prepare for a big responsibility. You may have to see off your biological fathers soon. If you happen to be the ones who became influenced by their cunning idealogy, dissassociate yourself. It might be a good time to position yourself in the right side of the history. Follow your instinct.

Energize the right side with logic that makes sense. How do you do that?

First of all, do not base your action on the basis of hate only. By now, we should have been beyond the hate cycle. Those parasites should have become non-existent by now. But that has not happened yet. And the strongest reason that they did not get their deserved justice yet is actually the sad history of December 14, 1971. This is the symbolic reason, when the greatest minds on the right side was eliminated first by the Rajakars, Al-Badrs, Al-Shams. Our older generation under-estimated them. It is the same reason that a state of de-generation of logic started after the 1971 victory, whereas what the nation needed is a regeneration of activities and thoughts.

This degeneration happened in a two stages - the first was inititated by the elimination of our best minds on 14th December, 1971. And the second stage was based on the fact that the remaining forces who won the war didn't do their job. They did not deliver the justice to the criminals of 1971. They under-estimated the enemy. And the nation is still paying the price for that, even after 36 years of independence. But as the new generation, the youth, grows into maturity, it would get itself out of degeneration, may be slowly - but surely. Until then, be careful. Lets see if they - the oldies can solve the problem they created :)

Thats why we are saying - do not base your action on the basis of hate only. Have some respect for the power of the enemies - just like you do not approach a snake with empty hand.

Keeping the faith on eventual success is the main issue. We shall over come. Soon. On the occasion of Martyred Intellectual Day, December 14, that should be everyone's promise to the country.

If you thought some of the ideas are worth of your reading time, please forward it to others. If you have an ear to the columnists in regular traditional media, please forward it to them. If you have an ear to the journalists and news editors of the electronic media, discuss it with them. Hope they would look at the suggestions and give due diligence.


Thanks for your time,
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Note: This is a freelance column, published mainly in different internet based forums. This column is open for contribution by the members of new generation, sometimes referred to as Gen 71. If you identify yourself as someone from that age-group and want to contribute to this column, please feel free to contact. Thanks to the group moderator for publishing the article.
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[Shadeshi_Bondhu] Victory day greetings to all Bangladeshii

Valobasha sokol Bangladeshii der jonne.

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Re: [Shadeshi_Bondhu] Roast and Eggs!!!!!!!!!!!!

Eggta Akto test kore dekhbo?? Kemon Lage???

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Re: [Shadeshi_Bondhu] !*!*! Kiss mE (pArt - V) !*!*!

umm its nice tat ur interested in kissing and all but bhaiya i would recommend that u plz don send dese pix in dis group.  We have people of different ages in this group and our country is westernized more than it needs to be alredy.  Sending pictures like these are not appreciated.
 
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¢ÀFerdouz¢À <fahmedcarrefour@gmail.com> wrote:

 
~* I only ask to be free. The butterflies are free *~

!*!*! Kiss mE (pArt - V) !*!*!

I dare not ask a kiss;
I dare not beg a smile;
Lest having that or this,
I might grow proud the while.
 

• Sent by Ferdouz •
 

No, no, the utmost share
Of my desire shall be
Only to kiss that air,
That lately kissed thee.
 

• Sent by Ferdouz •
 

Sweet Helen, make me immortal with a kiss!
Her lips suck forth my soul: see, where it flies!
Come Helen, come give me my soul again.
Here will I dwell, for heaven be in these lips,
And all is dross that is not Helena.
-- Christopher Marlowe
 

• Sent by Ferdouz •
 

A kiss, when all is said, what is it?
A rosy dot placed on the "i" in loving;
'Tis a secret told to the mouth instead of to the ear.
-- Edmond Rostand
 

• Sent by Ferdouz •
 

I understand thy kisses, and thou mine,
And that's a feeling disputation.
-- William Shakespeare
---Henry IV
 

• Sent by Ferdouz •
 

Teach not thy lip such scorn, for it was made
For kissing, lady, not for such contempt.
-- William Shakespeare
---Richard III
 

• Sent by Ferdouz •
 

... a wild dissolving bliss
Over my frame he breathed, approaching near,
And bent his eyes of kindling tenderness
Near mine, and on my lips impressed a lingering kiss,
-- Percy Bysshe Shelley
---The Revolt of Islam
 

• Sent by Ferdouz •
 

Lord! I wonder what fool it was that first invented kissing.
-- Jonathan Swift
---Dialogue ii.
 

• Sent by Ferdouz •
 

O love! O fire! once he drew
With one long kiss my whole soul through
My lips, as sunlight drinketh dew.
-- Alfred Tennyson
---Fatima. Stanza 3
 

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A man had given all other bliss,
And all his worldly worth for this,
To waste his whole heart in one kiss
Upon her perfect lips.
-- Alfred Tennyson
---Sir Launcelot and Queen Guinevere
 

• Sent by Ferdouz •
 

The sound of a kiss is not so loud as that of a cannon, but its echo lasts a great deal longer.
--Oliver Wendell Holmes
 

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I will find out where she has gone,
And kiss her lips and take her hands;
And walk among long dappled grass,
And pluck till time and times are done
The silver apples of the moon,
The golden apples of the sun.
--William Butler Yeats
---The Song of Wandering Aengus
 

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When I was a young man and never been kissed
I got to thinking over what I had missed
Got me a girl and I kissed her and then
Oh, Lord, I kissed her again
Oh..... kisses sweeter than wine
Oh..... kisses sweeter than wine
--The Weavers
---From their song Kisses Sweeter Than Wine
 

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A kiss makes the heart young again and wipes out the years.
--Rupert Brooke
 

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How did it happen that their lips came together? How does it happen that birds sing, that snow melts, that the rose unfolds, that the dawn whitens behind the stark shapes of trees on the quivering summit of the hill? A kiss, and all was said.
--Victor Hugo

• Sent by Ferdouz •
 


~* @me *~



 


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Re: [Shadeshi_Bondhu] byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee to all

Tomar Jathra Shubo hok........

Saif Farah <saifarah@yahoo.com> wrote:
Same 2 u dude.

arju_abur <arju_abur@yahoo.com> wrote:
-hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii friends.
-i'm going to my home.
-at last, finishing my exam, i'm free for all..................
-so good byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee friends and EID MUBARAK................



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[Shadeshi_Bondhu] Online !!! Kobita Utsob !!! Bijoy Dibosh !!! Join with Us !!!

Dear  Friend
Bangladesh Cultural Centre, Toronto organizing a program  'MUKTIR CHETONA HRIDOYE' to celebrate and remember   Bijoy Dibosh  2007. A number of leading poet and recitator from Toronto will be perticipating In this program. A leading singer and a young denceralso will perform. We also give a simbolic reception to a freedom fighter to show our love and respect forall of them.This program will be live broadcast toworldwide audience through
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Room:Tritio Matra Dot Org ( the most decent bangla  voice chat forum  )
on 15th December,Saturday
7.30pm Eastern standard time and 6.30am in Bangladesh
on 16th December, Sunday. Please come and join with
us. we  are  waiting  for you .
God  Bless  you .
Bye
Niloy  Sobhan
 


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